I’ve had abit of an issue regarding my mother in law
I feel like she doesn’t make enough effort with my daughters and I’m not sure on how to approach it
She rarely calls them (maybe every couple of weeks) and over the last 4 years she has come to my home 6/7 times - I have always made the effort to go to her house.
This is becoming abit of a issue with me, I want her to see my children more and for her to come to me as I’m getting fed up of being the one who makes the effort!
The reason she doesn’t come to my house is because she has to walk (it’s a 10 min walk)
I want my children to grow up with a nanny who makes effort with seeing them and speaking regularly and on my side of the family they have no grandparents and this is there main grandparent
I have already sent her a message with my partner says if that maybe we can do some sort of routine, for example every fortnight you come to my house and then two weeks later I will go to your house
However this was a month ago and nothing has changed
Any advise or similar stories in welcome